Everywhere I go, I meet women struggling to find a good husband, and men struggling to find a good wife. They are worn out by online dating, hook-up culture, and the busyness of life which affords so little time for meaningful connection. More and more people are realizing they are unsatisfied with going from one shallow relationship to another, with no prospects for commitment, starting a family, or building a life they can call their own.

On the other hand, many people have been looking for a husband or wife for years and are mentally and emotionally drained by getting their hopes up again and again only to have things fall through. I relieve this burden by taking over the initial assessment process, so you don’t have to spend time and energy filtering out people who aren’t serious or compatible with you.

Leveraging my own networks, I help people meet someone with whom they can find stable commitment and real connection. I learn about each individual’s unique spirit and aspirations, and pair not only based on preferred characteristics and checklists, but also a deep understanding of who each person really is and what kind of life they want. I’m looking for people who want to get married, who care about the world and are attempting to make something good within it. If this sounds like something you’ve been missing, and something you’re serious about finding, then read on.

How does this work?

For now, it’s free to fill out the general application form. If your application is accepted, I will create a profile for you and contact you if I have a potential match.

Men’s Application Form

Women’s Application Form

Becoming a Client

The next tier requires a more selective application, and I take you on as a client. This means I get to know and actively look for a spouse for you. My criteria are that I must like you personally, and believe you would make a good husband or wife. The initial client package gets you 3hrs of video/phone call where I get to know you. After that, you pay a smaller fee for each date I set you up on, or can set a custom sum to be paid only if you get married.

You must first fill out the general application form listed above, and you will receive further instructions once you indicate that you would like to become a client.

Introductions
I ask people follow a general process for introductions. I believe that courtship is an important formality, and that having some guidelines is a critical part of making it work.

When I make an in person connection, you agree to not one but two dates. The first date, you meet in the daytime at a coffee shop and go for a walk. The second date is up to you. Undue pressure rests on the first date, and first impressions aren’t always fully representative of a couple’s compatibility long term. Two dates allows for a more relaxed first meeting, and the opportunity to get to know someone over a few conversations. I will be available to debrief after each date and field any questions or concerns you may have.

Remote connections
I know that many of the introductions I make, at least at first, will be non-local, as in not in your town or city. I will work with you to decide how flexible you are on distance, and will always attempt to find people as close as possible to you.

When I set you up with someone with whom it isn’t immediately possible to arrange an in person date, I will initiate an introduction and the couple will schedule a phone conversation. This should be followed up with an email or ideally a written letter, and then you must take no longer than one month to decide on meeting in person and arranging a date. I highly, highly discourage corresponding over text before meeting in person. After that, it’s up to you. I’ll be available to check in through the whole process.

I am also available to help not only with finding a partner, but with helping you set up the kind of life that can support a thriving marriage and family, and will consider what this support might look like as I work with people.

If you’d like to join please start by filling out an application. You can find the men’s application here, and the women’s application here.

If you have any further questions, please contact me at willow.lianna@gmail.com.